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Safe meetings via the Internet
"10 Suggestions on Safe Meetings Via the Internet"
- Use Metrodate Messaging Until You Are Comfortable
Using online messaging, you can
determine whether a connection made through this service is worth
exploring further. Use it until you feel comfortable that the
person is being sincere.
- Do Not Give Out Personal Information
At first, since your
contact is anonymous by email, you need not give your full name,
telephone number etc. to the other individual. Only after you feel
comfortable should you exchange personal information.
- Meet in a Public Place
Until you feel comfortable with
someone, you should meet in a public place, where you feel
safe.
- Meet in a Group or Bring a Friend
If you decide to set up a
personal meeting, it may be fun to go out in a group or to
bring a friend along. This will make you feel more at ease.
- Set Up Free Email For This Service
There are so many great
free email systems out on the web, you should use it to your
advantage. This is especially advisable for people accessing the
internet from work. Just remember to write down your new password and
member ID somewhere.
- Ask For Personal References
If it will make you feel more
comfortable, ask for a personal reference or two.
- Do Not Buy Anything or Lend Money
In this day and age, scam
artists appear everywhere, maybe even in the singles world. Don't
let anyone scam you for money.
- When You Give a Phone Number, Give Your Work Number
If you
have some personal space in your office to talk on the phone, it
may be best to give out that phone number first, should you decide
to exchange numbers.
- Exchange Photos Via Email or Regular Mail
If you want to be
sure that the other person is telling the truth about their looks,
ask for a picture.
- Make Your Own Decision On Personal Meetings
Only you can
decide whether you feel a personal meeting is worthwhile; listen
to your own instincts.
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